A Bonus Lesson: Not Having Control Doesn’t Make You Powerless

I have a control problem. Always have.

The fear of losing control, or not having any control at all truthfully scares me. And this past month was a real trigger on what not having control does to me mentally, physically and spiritually. Loss of control made me reconsider if what I’m doing is worth the work. Can I continue to push past discomfort, fear and disappointment, taking a huge risk on what’s next without really knowing what’s to come?

I hate Love Songs

I have plenty of moments where my singleness gets the best of me. Where many days I think something is wrong with me because i’m not in a relationship. Or feeling frustrated when a guy tells me “Yes, You are the ideal girl, but you’re too perfect/good for me.” I am learning, daily, that I was created to be who and what I am, and that is enough.